At least once a week Lauren Askew is congratulated on her pregnancy – but she's not pregnant.
'It's so embarrassing and upsetting,' she says. 'If it's a stranger, I just go along with it because I can't face saying anything.
'But if it's someone I'm going to see again, I have to say, 'Actually, it's a condition'.'
Lauren, 42, gave birth to twin boys in June 2021 and has severe diastasis recti – a condition where the abdominal muscles separate during pregnancy and do not return to their normal position.
While some degree of separation is normal in every pregnancy – as hormonal changes cause ligaments to relax – normally the muscles naturally come back together after birth.
But in one in three women, the muscles and connective tissues of the rectus abdominis – the 'six pack' muscles which run vertically down the front of your stomach – separate too far, so can't return to their position.
The condition is usually caused by pregnancy, particularly if a woman has a large bump – such as Lauren's twin pregnancy – or is very petite, overweight or quickly becomes pregnant again after a previous birth.
Genetics and pushing for long periods during labour are linked with the condition. It can also be triggered or worsened if a woman exercises intensely before recovering core strength in the weeks after birth – especially doing sit-ups or certain yoga positions which cause the abs to bulge.
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